Toned Is a Lie—Strong Is the Vibe: How to Train When Estrogen Ghosts You
Fyonna Vanderwerf | JUL 25, 2025
Toned Is a Lie—Strong Is the Vibe: How to Train When Estrogen Ghosts You
Fyonna Vanderwerf | JUL 25, 2025
by Fyonna Vanderwerf |
2x Top Trainer in Canada | Former Ironman & Bodybuilder | Coach of Bees Knees Wellness Muskoka
Let’s cut through the noise.
You're not here to be skinny. You’re not here to shrink.
You’re here to lift, to grow, to take up space—because your strength is the most underestimated superpower you’ve got.
And guess what? If you’re in your 40s or 50s, there’s a scientific urgency to that strength. Estrogen is leaving the building. But instead of crying over your hormones and blaming your metabolism, I want you to grab a barbell and start mimicking what estrogen used to do for you.
Yep. This is estrogen-mimicking strength training—and it’s the exact protocol that helps women gain strength, stabilize mood, improve bone density, and hold onto muscle like your life depends on it. Because it kind of does.
Estrogen isn’t just a sex hormone. It’s your body’s anabolic fairy godmother. It protects your brain, bones, muscles, joints, and even your confidence. When it drops (hello, perimenopause/menopause), we need to mimic its effects with action.
Increases IGF-1, growth hormone, and testosterone (yes, you have it too)
Rebuilds lean muscle mass lost due to age and hormone shift
Supports neuroplasticity and mood regulation
Strengthens connective tissue (estrogen decline makes you stiffer and slower)
Triggers bone-building osteoblast activity
So when you lift heavy (I’m talking about that 4–6 rep, 4-set, good kind of sore), you’re literally telling your body, “Hey, we’re not going anywhere but UP.”
Muscle is your metabolism. It keeps you insulin-sensitive and lean.
It improves sleep. Heavy lifts stimulate serotonin and melatonin.
You boost brain power. Neurotransmitters love deadlifts.
You feel powerful AF. Strong body = unshakable mindset.
Better posture and joint support. Your back, hips, and knees will thank you.
It shrinks visceral fat. That stubborn “menopause belly”? Hit it with strength.
You’ll stop fearing food. More muscle = more fuel needed.
Stronger bones = fewer breaks. Osteoporosis doesn’t stand a chance.
It’s your stress vaccine. Cortisol hates your dumbbell habit.
You change your life trajectory. You’ll literally age backward.
In 3 months: You’ve rebuilt muscle tone, stabilized energy, dropped inches, and feel 🔥 when you walk into a room.
In 3 years: You’ve fortified your metabolism, erased joint pain, boosted your VO2 max, and dropped your risk for chronic disease.
In 13 years: You’re the badass 60-something who deadlifts her suitcase into the car, goes hiking for fun, and never “loses balance” again.
The Format:
3 lifting days (Mon/Wed/Fri or Tues/Thurs/Sat)
4–6 reps, 4 sets
2 min rest between sets
1 jump/plyo or power move added to keep fire in the system
Lift HEAVY. Rest. Repeat. Feel electric.
Trap Bar Deadlift – 4x6
Bulgarian Split Squat – 4x6/leg
Barbell Hip Thrust – 4x8
Standing Calf Raise – 4x10
Side Plank Hold – 3x30 sec/side
Jump Finisher: 3x10 Jump Squats or Step-Up Hops
Incline DB Press – 4x6
1-Arm DB Row – 4x6
Half-Kneeling Overhead Press – 4x6
Lat Pulldown – 4x8
Renegade Rows – 3x10
Power Finisher: Battle Ropes or Sled Push (3 rounds)
Landmine Clean to Front Squat – 4x6
Cable Rotational Row – 4x8
Reverse Lunge with Rotation – 4x6/leg
Glute Ham Raise or Nordic Curl – 3x6
Standing Cable Chop – 3x10
Jump Finisher: Skater Hops or Med Ball Slams (3x15)
Toning is a myth. What you really want is to sculpt strength, confidence, and stability that outlasts any meal plan or fad.
“Lifting makes you bulky” is the lie weak culture told strong women.
You want real change? You need real effort. And heavy strength training is the best return on investment you’ll ever give yourself. Not just for your body—but for your energy, your joints, your libido, your identity.
You don’t need to be perfect.
You don’t need to have all the gear.
You just need to show up and lift the damn weight.
👉 Reach out to Bees Knees Wellness Muskoka and book a free class.
Let your muscles show you what your body is capable of.
Change is coming. It’s got calluses. And it’s carrying kettlebells.
whoo! xxxx fyonna
Fyonna Vanderwerf | JUL 25, 2025
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