Don’t Tell Me to Eat More Protein (Until You Explain WTF That Even Means)
Fyonna Vanderwerf | MAY 23, 2025
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food coach ;
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Look, I get it. You're over it. You're tired, you’re bloated, you’re craving everything, and suddenly everyone on the internet is screaming:
“Girl, just eat more protein!”
And you’re sitting there like:
“Don’t tell me to eat more protein unless you’re also telling me how to actually do it without choking down dry chicken at 7 AM.”
This post is for you.
🍳 Why Protein Actually Matters
This isn’t about getting ripped or bulking up. This is about:
Stabilizing your blood sugar so you don’t crash and crave at 11:12 AM.
Lowering cortisol, especially in the morning (ladies, I see you).
Repairing muscle, tissue, skin, and—yeah—even your mood.
Making sure your metabolism doesn’t tank while you’re over 40 and trying to keep your life from imploding.
Protein doesn’t just “help”—it anchors your hormones.
👉 Pro tip: Start your day with 25–30g of protein within 60 minutes of waking. It stabilizes insulin and gives your body what it needs before you hit the caffeine panic button.
😤 Why You're Frustrated
Because protein sounds like work. You’re juggling meetings, menopause, macros, moods, and mouths to feed. The last thing you want is a plate of egg whites or another preachy post about quinoa.
What you need is clarity. Simplicity. Structure. And maybe a side of sass.
🥄 What Protein Actually Looks Like
🟢 10g of Protein = Snack Zone
2 boiled eggs
¾ cup Greek yogurt
3 tbsp hemp hearts
1 cup cooked lentils
1 scoop collagen powder
2 tbsp peanut butter
1 oz almonds
1 slice deli turkey
2 tbsp pumpkin seeds
½ cup cottage cheese
🟡 20g of Protein = Light Meal Power
1 protein shake (whey or vegan blend)
3 oz chicken breast
2 hard-boiled eggs + 1 tbsp hemp
1 cup edamame
1 protein bar (watch the sugar)
2 eggs + ¼ cup cheese
1 cup quinoa + chickpeas
¾ cup tempeh
1 can tuna
2 veggie sausages
¾ cup ricotta
½ cup tofu + veggies
1 seitan patty
2 scoops bone broth protein
3 egg omelette
🔴 30g of Protein = Big Meal Time
5 oz grilled salmon
1 cup lentil pasta + tofu
1 chicken thigh + Greek yogurt dressing
2 eggs + ¾ cup egg whites
1 burger patty (lean beef or bison)
1 cup tempeh stir fry
2 scoops whey protein
1 ½ cups cottage cheese
1 wrap with turkey, cheese + hummus
Tofu scramble + sprouted toast
Stir fry with seitan + brown rice
Smoothie with protein, seeds, oats
2 Beyond Meat patties
Omelette + protein toast
Power bowl: beans, nuts, seeds, greens, grains
Soba noodle salad + edamame + tahini
Protein pancakes with Greek yogurt
Veggie chili + tempeh crumble
Turkey meatballs + lentils
Bison chili + avocado
⚠️ 10 Signs You Might Be Protein Deficient
You’re always hungry—even after eating
You’re losing hair or have brittle nails
You feel “puffy” or inflamed
You're healing slowly (cuts, bruises, workouts)
Your moods are unstable (thanks, neurotransmitters)
You’re losing muscle mass or strength
You’re constantly bloated
You can’t focus (brain fog is real)
You’re craving sugar/carbs constantly
You’re waking up tired, even with 8 hours
✅ 10 Signs You’re Probably Hitting Your Protein Needs
You feel satisfied after meals
Your energy is steady throughout the day
You're gaining strength or maintaining lean mass
Recovery feels smoother after workouts
Cravings are minimal
Your digestion is more regular
Hair + nails are looking fab
Skin feels tighter and less puffy
Sleep is deeper and more restful
You’re in a better mood (hello, dopamine + serotonin!)
🥦 Meal Plan for 140g Protein
💚 Vegetarian Day:
Breakfast: Protein smoothie with 1 scoop vegan protein, chia, nut butter, soy milk (30g)
“Food is not the enemy—it’s your strategy. And protein is the lead player in your comeback story.” – Fyonna Vanderwerf
💥 CALL TO ACTION:
Sick of guessing? Over the noise and overwhelmed by food rules?
✅ Book a food coaching consult with me at Bees Knees Wellness Muskoka. ✅ Let’s map out a protein-rich, hormone-happy eating strategy that actually works for your body and your life. ✅ Because when you eat with purpose, your energy, strength, and mindset follow.